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falling apart
Thursday, 30 August 2012
the relationship was once again placed to the edge.
a new season tsumori chisato wrist watch was the trigger point. i just dont understand why her sis have to bring up this new item to her, maybe in short, i dont understand why some of her frens have to tag or send her photos of new items released on the market. is like psycho-ing her to buy the items. i juz hate this kind of ppl, always tell other ppl this one nice that one nice, if they really like it so much, just go and buy la. in fact, this will only increase her tendacity to "shi xin feng" towards material items.
she told me she regret not trying the watch in japan. seriously in my mind, she had already bought so many things back, why is she still not contended? and if she doesnt want to buy the watch, why bother to even try? dont give me reason like "try so fun only", coz its totally bizzare in my aspect. then it set me thinking, did i spolit her too much? paying for her stuffs and making her feeling that she can afford to buy more items back because she doesnt feel the pinch for this trip.
its not that i will stop her from trying, in fact, if we are in a local shop, and if the item is nice, i will also tell her go and try la. i understand the fact that trying doesnt neccessary lead to buying the item, especially if it is not nice or over budget. however, for the watch, perhaps it is like around 500-600 bucks which i know she can clearly afford it. and do not eliminate the possibility of getting it if it is nice.
however, please face the fact that we are already back in singapore, so why do you wanna feel regret? i mean in life, theres are a million thing that we shld feel regret about.. for her case, perhaps shld be not studying hard enough to get a better qualification, perhaps not spending enough time with her mum.. all these i can understand, but feel regret on trying a watch?
perhaps this character cultivated through out in the family.. they are always the happy go lucky lot, everything happy can liao. they never think about the future. to put it in good words, they live in the moment, to make it sound bad, they just get lost in the lala land. she told me as couples, we shld accept each other's character and not change them.
i only know as couples, we try to influence each other in a better way. that's all.
xoxo,
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